Friday, September 15, 2006

LIFE AFTER LOVE

so2aaaaaaaaal lady's and gentleman boys and girlsss
Can u still be friends with your ex ??
ANSWER HONESTLY o0o GIVE ME REASONS PLZ

P.S song of the moment Breathe- Joss Stone

36 comments:

FASHIONOLOGIE said...

me first hahahahahahaha ( im only first cuz shes making me comment ) hahahah fatha7tik

no u cant it too hard cuz it shreads ur heart into slices cuz if he hurt u that mean u cant forgive him and if u hurt him that SHOULD mean that u cant show ur face
el zibdah no u cant unless u have a heart of steel and i know u baby sis u dont belive me u dont mwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa7 shahoooda wuvlz u

FA$HIONISTA said...

SHOOOSH wat if i ended it o0o i still wanna be frnds :S?
wat if i ended it cuz it wasnt real luv? it wouldnt be that hard to stay frnds with someone u dont really luv fahmty ?

o0o b3dain stop laughing mama thinks we r crazy

FASHIONOLOGIE said...

u still hurt him baby thats considered hurting u scared him for life mskeeeen ahha y3eeeeeeeenoh mskeeen goooliyla yjeee agra 3alayh 3ashan ma yn9are3 allah yfraj 3alah 6areeegih

there is no such thing as real love its either lust or infatuation or puppy love so dont worry baby from now on if u like the dude stick to beingfrineds

mama knows e7na crazy thats y shes not surprised that we r lofao in seperate rooms 3adi shes mama

FA$HIONISTA said...

I wanna be friends with this SO CALLED PERSON IL KAKA bbas they dont want to :S
looooooool fj2a glbty like mama mneerah :P

o0o b3dain in ur world mafi such thing as luv bas i believe in it SO BE GONE :(

i want more nuggets :(

p.s allah y5leeha lina lol

FASHIONOLOGIE said...

haw wish feeha mama mnerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrah ra7imha allah mafee

mafee love and u will come to realize it one day ma fee and dont say be gone ya bgarah sha sha no be gone sha sha be gone in mais room to bux her ears for saying be gone

ameeeeeeeeeeen ya rab al3alemeeeen alah y5aleeelna fifi :)

i ate 6 peices ana oo mama b4 u guys came :P

FA$HIONISTA said...

:O:O:O u shit in my pantiesss oh oh oh u shit in my panties oh oh oh and dont it feel good ya ALRIGHT :P looooooool agool glbnaha swaleef
shu shu fly fly

FA$HIONISTA said...

loooooooool lulu 7ram im not a nut case im a hazelnut case :P lol < corny i know

thnx for your advice. i guess u cant be frnds can u :(
not even if i REALLY REALLY WANT TO :( ?

Taqo said...

Yes, I think you can/should.
Why waste a friendship just because ur "love relationship" didnt work out?
Especially if he's a nice guy.

I would most definitely, try to remain friends :)

FA$HIONISTA said...

how bout if he doesnt wanna be frnds :S ?

Anonymous said...

ha haaaaa haaaa haaa the answer to ur question and excuse my french but fuck no!! of course there is no such thing as friendship after love thats like the chances of that are slimmer than the chances of me fitting into a size 28 jeans.. its like sayin a crackhead wont touch the pipe after a drug seminar .. ha ha ofcourse he will ..wait what was the question

Anonymous said...

o and no matter how much u both wanna be friends its just wont work

like a 35 yearold with a highschool degree ... wow im nice`

FA$HIONISTA said...

NAF NAF shut up :(
lol Y NOT u didnt ansr me Y NOT ?
ok true in some cases u cant stay frnds mhma y9eer (like if u cheated on him or vice versa) bas how bout if u broke up cuz u werent in luv u only liked him as a frnd the whole time
fhmt ?
y3ni the whole time u talked to him and teated him as a frnd bas still used the gf bf sign
expt now cant u still talk the same wthout using the bf gf sing ?

Anonymous said...

if liked u thinking u guys where an item and now ur not no nuthings gonna be the same its just gonna be weird and .. and ur both gonna feel it and then the hatred starts so just keep a distance cuz there really is no friendship after love .. speaking of french dip im kinda hungry

Anonymous said...

if liked u thinking ? wtf is that i meant if u were like thinking

FA$HIONISTA said...

lol 3ady i got u :D
ummmmmmm im so mshtahya nuggets
too bad ur all the way in DC or kan gltlk pick some up o0o come over :P

Anonymous said...

if you just thought of him as a friend all this time then why tell him you are no longer a thing ? and why do you care so much anyway ? is he really worth it ?

Anonymous said...

Maii!! baby the guy would die if he cant have u as a friend atleast! so maybe u shouldnt be his friend at all...hehe..

ok, time to talk seriously, :D, my first advice is that you have to be cruel to be kind, so i honestly think u should cut or reduce contact with an ex for a few months or yrs after the break up happens depending on how attached both of u are to each other to ease down the excitement,butterflys,attachment, and maybe the love and give each other sufficient time to get over each other if u want to be friends later.. otherwise friendship would be hard and impossible. However, reducing or cutting contact for a while would be the hardest part i think (after break up part), but if u get through this part it'll pay off bcuz there'll come a day when both of u are over each other and happy, and that day would be suitable for both of u to start becomming friends.
This case applys to kinds of exes whether the relationship ended up with betrayal or ended up on good terms.. cuz at the end of the day, if u dont wanna wrinkle and age quickly, take life easily, forgive and forget. :) love u ! kiss kiss! mwah!

Bissa said...

Depending on what type of guy he is.
il7een from reading ur comments u don't like him in a "bf" kind of way nor as a "friend".
Then, just have him hanging there; Jamlee ilguy and just say Hi if he comes up to you and talks. Y3ni no hatred, nothing awkward.
:) I hope what i said made sense and works.

Mwa7 xxx

Anonymous said...

LOL hell yes !! y not ?
me and my x min kethr ma kenna friends i hooked her up with one of my best friends and untill now they are 2gether :P 7illwa untill now lesh tabeehom yeftar8oon <--- :P

my answer is yes yes yes , oo 6ab3an lkolly 7adethin 7adeth, oo kel relationship te5tlef 3an el thanyah oo how u really ended it !!

N said...

well, yeah u can be friends with an ex, only if it ended mutually, bedoon srakh wala hoosha, oo its not that u dont care about him, its just that ur not in love anymore, but ur still in "like"..

zahrat ilma6ba5 said...
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zahrat ilma6ba5 said...

um..yeah bs it depends on how the relationship ended ya3ni if one cheated on the other then I highly doubt it.

FA$HIONISTA said...

gracias all 3ala il feedback
I LUUUUUUUF YAW ALL
umm doomy la2 we werent frnds min awal we would call ourselves a couple even though i just felt he was afrnd i went along with the COUPLE thing
fhmty :S ?

mondo: maybe they said that after trying out luv u know :S m3rf walah
once i heard that in a relationship hate turns into like, like turns into infatuation, infatuation turns into somethuing, smthing turns into respect, eventually respect turns into luv. So i guess luv is hard. you have to stick with this person through all of these to find true luv. give her time shes still on infatuation. Sooner or later she will realize that she's in luv ( believe moi )

FA$HIONISTA said...

anonymous numero 4
i told him we were no longer a thing cuz he thought we were one. Yes i do care he is worth it. I dont wanna lose him. I'll im asking for is for us to stay frnds. not even close frnds HI bye kaifk bla bla... thats all i want. I dont wanna lost him completely. Soon he will be over our break up o0o find another girl o0o at that time he'll wanna be frnds I KNOW IT. if i have to giv e him time to do all that just to stay frnds then BY ALL MEANS i will

Anonymous said...

Yes you can be friends with your ex. ( bs 3ala 7asab the guy )

1. & yes you can be just friends bs it will hurt you like hell, but if this is what you want then you gotta live with it.

2. If he doesn't want then you gotta figure it out you either go out with him ( if you really do love him ) or you should just stop being his friend..

Equalizer said...

yes if the breakup is amicable!

Dude! said...

Prepair for a world of falsafa:
*clears throat* That depends on Y you two broke up, is it because he/she is not the boy/girlfriend type you can be friends.
If its because he/she is cheating on you, HELL NO.
W ya3nee... Hadi al6areega

I'M BORED

FA$HIONISTA said...

no its cuz hes not the BF type. HE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO LUV u5555555555

UFFFFFF ABI ICE CARAMEL MOCHIOTTO

!nsanity said...

errr...can u explain how he doesnt know how to love...seems a bit vague willa ? and i dont think its that hard now is it ?

FA$HIONISTA said...

how can i explain. he doesnt call to check up on me, he doesnt say i luf yaaw. he tells me (indirectly 6b3an) that he only calls wen im bored, hes not romantic o0o he knows it. ufffffff m3rf wish g3dny m3aaaa for a year. walah i'm too good for him YES U HEARD IT IM TOO GOOD FOR HIM. as a matter of fact im TOO GOOD FOR NE GUY.
im done with guys FOR NOW

FA$HIONISTA said...

fifi:
i cant NOT be his frnds he means TOO Much to me y3ni i dont want him as a BF bas i would nvr wanna lose him asa frnd. NO one cheated on NO one bas kitha mafi luv o0o without luv i cant stay in a relationship.

equalizer
IF ONLY i knew wat that meant :P

DIABZ :
BEBE THANK GOD SOMEONE agrees with me. HE OBVIOUSLY DOESNT THINK WE SHOULD.

!nsanity said...

lol seems ur man sucked big time eh ? also seems ur a bit too spiteful me thinks. take it easy mmk ?

FA$HIONISTA said...

do u even know what spiteful means :S? cuz im nething BUT that mmk

Lamya said...

hello there

errrm, not in this case. I wouldnt advise u to be friends for a while, it would be too messy and confusing for him. Let him get over his heartache, and then maybe you can take it to the kayfak level right? yeah, i know u would miss his company as a friend, and the chats and the calls, but give him some space to sort out his head and find someone else...its the kindest thing to do.

Ive been there, and giving him his space, when he found someone else, it actually made me realise that i'm so in love with him..we have been together for four years since then..but it may not work out that way for you.Any way you look at it..giving him some space is quite advantageous..

good luck in whatever u decide. follow ur heart...

lamya

Shilling said...

I think that you can. But if he doesn't want to, then screw him, ur right ur 2 good 4 him bella.

fire alarm said...

after a year or so from breaking up with a gf i can become really good friends with them. 7amdallah most of my x are still trust me with thier secrets and come to me from time to time for help.. theyre all kool